Tools Of Influence For A Successful Narcissist

The deceptive methods of influence for narcissists laid out in this article may seem effective and fun, however, Human history has proven that the basics have helped us to grow stronger as communities. Having integrity. Being Honest and appreciative of others. Educating and encouraging each other to be better. These tools build trust and a deep connection to each other.

But the narcissist needs to do things differently, with a little bit of panache. They tend to have an Inflated sense of importance, a need for excessive attention, admiration, and a lack of empathy for others.

Carllrac Presents: Tools of influence for a successful narcissist.

Connect with Famous people

Social media gives us the ability to connect with strangers indiscriminately and now we can get through life by not really knowing anyone or anything. Yet we can still be attached to others through a collection of online posts. Part of what drives this social media connection is our obsession with celebrity.

Gone are the days, when in order for us to look into the personal lives of celebrities, we’d have to break into their homes and wait patiently in their closet until they came home. But, now we have the resources available in the form of social media, to connect with famous and influential people. Celebrities, politicians, Nobel prize winners, and reputable flat earth scholars.

Digital technology has become so advanced, that we can now even produce false replications of these famous men and women of industry or high society. Tools like photoshop or AI assisted video fake technology can trick others into thinking we are in the social orbit of celebrities.

It’s all about marketing and brand building. We follow our favorite pop singers' on platforms that are run by his/her team. there is no real connection to that celebrity, it’s just another device to put out content. It’s become a forum for them to take a picture of a salmon salad, or expensive champagne at a club, paid for by an event promoter.

We have so many celebrities available that it’s easy to trick people into thinking that you are special for knowing them. So the first tip is to Begin by Posting statuses and pictures with you as part of fake organizations and friends with powerful people. Like, Carllrac.com.

This is a good way to increase your sense of importance and entitlement.

Have a Mission to share

People like others with goals and ambition, because most of us appreciate those who have their stuff together. There aren’t many better ways to prove you have your priorities in order than to believe you are involved with organizations trying to make the world a better place. Associate with such organizations, and become assertive at expressing generic thoughts on social issues, which are ambiguous enough to play to all sides of a cause, yet not offensive to anyone eg.“We need to help children”.

If you pander to a niche audience or a fringe group, you might feel like you are successfully reaching a lot of people at first, but keep in mind that those markets can be crowded and often dominated by a more established and crazier group. By staying in the middle of an issue you are able to give yourself flexibility with sustained monetization of your opinions later on down the road.

Make Pledges

Pledge to donate an enormous amount of money to a charity, with your real name, but use fake banking info and address, so the cheque bounces. This way you will get the initial wave of notoriety and good will, but won’t have to pay the donation. There might be a temporary backlash at first, but that outrage will dissipate. After all, it was the charitable thought that really counted.

Act crazy occasionally

Crazy people are fascinating. Others will follow you, even if they don’t fully understand your motivations. If it’s wacko enough, small groups of people will start to pay attention. So, every now and then, you will want to use a Molotov cocktail on a person's garage door. Our news cycle goes by really quick. After a day, no one will remember the act of violence… only the passion you expressed.

Crazy people change the norms of our everyday and dull lives, so people are drawn to them. A crazy man is the Chicken Tikka equivalent to another man’s, roast beef. Crazy people are Less likely to be scared of doing things, taking chances, or putting themselves out there, especially with regards to criticism. They show people and unvarnished veneer, and despite the complexity of their mental state are authentic. In our mundane lives, people connect to those who act crazy because they are the ones who have high energy to fulfill the functions of abnormalcy that we all wished we had in our lives. They break the rules, are creative, inventive, as well as curious and persistent. You will also create a personal aura of fear and danger about you, which for a narcissist can be admiration on its own, and a real bonus.

Buy stuff for people

Buying things for people can make them feel as if they owe you for your generosity. Bring it up occasionally to mention it, before they feel comfortable taking advantage of you. But by creating a co dependency on people you can create a sense of self from pleasing others. That praise and attention gives us a feeling of esteem. Even though it’s ungrounded esteem that doesn’t come from within, but something we are missing in our lives.

When you Do bring it up, you can use your purchases as a conversation starter - “how’s that slow cooker I bought for you, last year working? Do you use it much?. It was kind of pricey, but you deserve it.”

This may help you cover for an inability to express love, respect and Qualities associated with friendship. You can also look at it as a selfless way to guilt people into special treatment.

Tell people what they want to hear

People want to associate with “like minded” people. It’s fashionable for others to say they like differing opinions, but that’s hogwash. Only intelligent people are sincere about that, and most people are idiots. So play the odds and play the idiot. By having this courtesy bias when interacting with people will help avoid uncomfortable conversations and awkwardness. Your suppression of true opinion and honest feedback in the moment, is a small price to pay to gain influence among segments of the population that could lead to personal gain in the future. This act of empathy goes against the stereotype that narcissists have the inability or the unwillingness to recognize the needs and feelings of others.

Consider extortion or emotional blackmail to manipulate people

As a narcissist, society expects you to take advantage of others. You would be even more arrogant, not to use this tool to your advantage. Use emotional blackmail to get something you want from people. Manipulate them with their emotions. Make them feel guilty or upset.

“If you go out with your friends tonight, I won’t be here when you get back.”

“If you can’t stay with me here tonight, when I need you. Maybe someone else will.”

“You looked like you had a great time at that night club, last night. I notice from these pictures that you weren’t with your wife. $1000 might convince me otherwise.”

These forms of influence are pretty clear cut. Utilize emotional threats or the fear of embarrassing others, and force to get yourself what you want.

As a narcissist, things might not go as smoothly as you’d expect. Your arrogance, self centered behavior, and lack of empathy for other people may invite some resentment. Just remember not to react negatively to criticism, should your narcissistic personality lead to social outrage. Remember to keep yourself focused on the real goals of narcissism. Your dreams of power, success and beauty.

Tools Of Influence For A Successful Narcissist

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